Unless you’ve been living under a rock like my parents, who long ago gave up watching local news, you know that some scary stuff went down in Laredo on Monday. A woman, who we now have learned was named Rachelle Grimmer and who was from Ohio, took her two kids into the Office of Health and Human Services here in Laredo, took employees hostage, and ended the evening by killing herself and attempting to kill her two children.
Her two children are 10 and 12. According to our local Idiot PD, the two children are still alive, but only barely. If you keep anyone in your prayers/thoughts this Christmas, please consider them.
There have been loads of accusations flying around, that this was the fault of the state workers, that it was the fault of PD, that it was the fault of all those greedy illegals who come here and steal all our poor people’s money.
Not once have I seen the mother blamed. Allowed me to do so. Rachelle Grimmer shot her two children. In the head. I don’t care how desperate you are. I don’t care who has failed you. You do NOT shoot your children in the head and then escape blame. You don’t get to
There. I said it. This was a woman who dragged her kids to Laredo, “home-schooled” them, and then decided the state wasn’t doing enough for her, so she shot them in the most dramatic of manners. And why are we supposed to feel sorry for her? Because she was poor? Maybe where she SHOULD have been asking for help was MHMR. Laredo is full of poor people. This city is so economically depressed that the disparity between the wealthy and the poor is obscene.
But being poor does not mean you get to shoot your children. And most poor folks DON’T shoot their children.
Next, I’m curious about something. In the comments section of both the Times and KGNS, people keep bringing up that they’ve seen people at HEB paying with Lone Star and then driving off in their Escalade with fancy rims. Now, once, I’d think this was true. Twice, well, still true. Maybe Mr. Escalade gets around. But I’ve seen this so many times in different CITIES, that I’m beginning to suspect that Mr. or Mrs. Pimped out Escalade is like Sasquatch – perhaps real, but mostly a figment of a lot of different imaginations.
I’m not saying that there aren’t people who abuse the system. I am 100 percent sure there are. There always is. But people seem obsessed with Mr. Escalade or Mrs. Juicy Couture. They are the bogeymen, the scapegoat. The center of all anger and prejudice. These folks are dripping with diamonds and outfitted with designer jeans, fancy shades, and killer boots. They whip out their SNAP cards and pay for processed foods and then pack their pimped out rides full of state-provided groceries.
I have lived in Laredo on and off for close to 30 years, and I’ve never seen this Urban Sasquatch. I have seen folks like the guy last night. He was dressed in clean, pressed jeans and a sweater, with a nice beanie. He was buying milk, cereal, bread, deli meats, fruits, chips, beer, diapers, and other sundries. He looked like my boyfriend, actually. And my cart was somewhat similarly stocked (minus the diapers). So, let me ask you this. Because he was using a Lone Star card, should he look a certain way? Does he need to look bedraggled? Should he have been wearing chanclas in 40 degree weather, torn jeans, dirty shirt, or long hair? I’ve seen folks like that, too. Did I consider that he was scamming the system because he didn’t fit the part of what people seem to think poor people should look like? No, I didn’t. Why? Because it’s none of my business.
The poor lie on a spectrum, my friends. True, an Escalade is a bit ostentatious for someone claiming to be in need of financial assistance, but not every poor person likes to look like one. They don’t all stand on street corners, begging for your spare change.
And not all people who need social services have always been poor or will always be poor. Sometimes we fall on hard times, especially these days. If I lost my job tomorrow, had a hard time finding work and needed to feed myself, would you begrudge me the assistance because I wash and iron my clothes? Because I drive a late model car that will probably be repossessed because I’ll have lost my ability to make payments and have no family to rely on for help?
It’s Christmas-time, my friends. The time we celebrate the birth of one of the most forgiving figures in any religion. Let go of your anger and pray for the lives of two little kids who were failed by the one person who mattered – their mother.